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Is Your Teen Stressed Out By School? Here’s How to Help

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Have you noticed your teen experiencing school-related stress? School can oftentimes be a top contributor to a teen’s stress level, with assignments that are coming due, projects needing to be worked on, tests to study for, extracurricular activities and more. In fact, one study shows that 68% of teens claim to be highly stressed out about school, and others show that teens today are actually more stressed out than adults. If you’re a parent or caregiver, identifying when your teen is undergoing a difficult time is very important. Here are some strategies you can try to help alleviate their stress.

Establish a No-Stress Zone

Teens need a place to escape from the daily pressure of school and school-related activities. Encouraging and giving them space to relax can help them decompress and let them recharge from deadlines and responsibilities. By giving them the freedom to create their own positive environment, whether this involves listening to music, going for a walk in nature, creating art, meditating, spending time with friends, or taking a nap, your teen will possibly be even be more productive in school.

Manage Your Own Stress

If your teen feels that you are stressed out, they will be likely to feed off of this, in turn increasing their stress level. Your teen is constantly learning from you and acting according to your example. If you employ effective coping mechanisms when you’re undergoing stress like breathing deeply, being physically active and speaking positively, your teen will likely do the same.

Allow Them to Vent

Venting can be a great stress reliever as long as it doesn’t become commonplace. Giving your teen the freedom to vent and not punishing them for doing so can help them relieve tension and then be able to better think through the issues that are causing stress. Try giving teens a chance to vocalize their frustrations in a judgment-free environment. Journaling, whether with pen and paper or on a computer, is another safe way that teens can give voice to their challenges and work through feelings.

Limit Extracurricular Activities

Sometimes, teens just have a bit too much on their plates. Academic pressures can be easier to manage if they don’t have an overabundance of extracurricular activities. If your teen seems tired too often, is underperforming grade-wise or seems uncharacteristically depressed, you may want to consider limiting outside activities since they may be piling on their stress. Downtime should be encouraged since it helps give them a reprieve from the constant demands in their lives.

Seek Help from a Counselor or Behavioral Health Professional

Talking to a counselor is a great option if school stress is affecting your child’s ability to cope with day-to-day life. To better know if you should seek help from a professional for your teen, visit How to Know If Your Teen Needs Therapy.

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